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"Once upon a time there was a boy who loved a girl, and her laughter was a question he wanted to spend his whole life answering." I've been reading the novel The History of Love by Nicole Krauss.

Your hands are warm and my body is wide, to hold all the promise of blue-velvet dark and stars.

一生尋找快樂，快樂就在身邊，就是身邊的人，無需捨近圖遠，不用妙想天開。

"the whole world is moving and I'm standing still" ~ the weepies

想起趙元任與楊步偉傳為美談的那首小詩──「爭爭吵吵五十年，人人都說好姻緣。元任今生欠我業，顛倒陰陽再團圓。」

for someone you cares

我記得你總是老遠從對面海過來等我下課，陪我上班，然後又獨自的回到海的另一邊，我曉得那個意義。

"More than kisses, letters mingle souls." John Donne

"_________, I take you to be my wife/husband from this time onward, to join with you and to share all that is to come, to give and to receive, to speak and to listen, to inspire and to respond, and in all circumstances of our life together to be loyal, to you with my whole life and with my being." It just felt perfect to me and Paul loves it too. I will save my original thoughts for the marriage. And I'll say that promise out loud in a white dress and then spend forever trying to keep it.

there is no remedy for love but to love more - thoreau

Audrey Hepburn once said, "If I get married, I want to be very married." Alex, I can't wait to very-marry you.

"Sexiness wears thin after a while and beauty fades, but to be married to a man who makes you laugh everyday, ah, now that's a real treat." Joanne Newman

“Love is not looking at each other, but looking together in the same direction”— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

What hurts the most, was being so close. Having so much to say, and watching you walk away. Never knowing, what could have been. Not seeing that loving you, was what I was trying to do.

寂寞古池躍青蛙 水有聲 這句子好在什麼地方呢？其實它的好一半在作者的敘述，一半在它跟讀者之間共有的默契。什麼默契？你必須先同意素樸的、簡約的、收斂的美，你必須用數學上的減法，把場景減到極枯寂極空靈，然後，悄然浮出的那一點才是美。

"So come with me, where dreams are born, and time is never planned. Just think of happy things, and your heart will fly on wings, forever, in Never Never Land! ~ Peter Pan"

張愛玲在「紅玫瑰與白玫瑰」一文中開的端。 張愛玲在「紅玫瑰與白玫瑰」文章中寫到『振保的生命裡有兩個女人，一個是他的白玫瑰，一個是他的紅玫瑰；一個是聖潔的妻，一個是熱烈的情婦。…也許每一個男子全都有過這樣的兩個女人，至少兩個，娶了紅玫瑰，久而久之，紅的變了牆上的一抹蚊子血，白的還是“床前明月光”；娶了白玫瑰，白的便是衣服上的一粒飯粘子，紅的卻是心口上的一顆朱砂痣。…』

第二大心法，是愛人，很需要理性。在《破惘》中有這一句：「要維持兩人的愛情關係，第一重要的是有理性。通常人們以為愛情既然是感性的，所以對愛情就不應該講理性。其實愛情是感性的是一回事，如何維繫愛情的關係又是另一回事。所謂講理性，不是叫人在談情說愛時大講邏輯，而是叫人多為對方設想，凡事寬容一點。」

「感情就像是隻小野獸，你如果追它、它就會逃走。最好的方法就是坐著不動，等它慢慢走向你，就算靠得很近了，也不能撲向它。」

「３３ 愛德蒙松越來越頻繁地打電話給我。我們通話的時候，有時候雙方都長時間地保持沈默。我特別喜愛這種時刻。我緊貼電話，努力想聽到她的氣息和呼吸聲。當她打破沈默的那一刻，我能感到她的聲音裡帶有水蒸氣。」

「戀愛在時間上有個圈套（這個圈套就叫做愛情故事）。」－《戀人絮語》，p.206。

「甜言蜜語只對左耳說。」

...So that the singing I heard you may hear too.