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刻卜勒牛頓的內心中，一定存在非常強烈的渴望 對於這世界所浮現的道理不管多微小都想要了解 這才能使他們熬過許多寂寞的歲月 致力解開天體力學的秘密 -- 愛因斯坦

"sometimes I need to hear things like that. carry on."

1. Do one thing at a time. 2. Do it slowly and deliberately. 3. Do it completely. 4. Do less. 5. Put space between things. 6. Develop rituals. 7. Designate time for certain things. 8. Devote time to sitting. 9. Smile and serve others. 10. Make cleaning and cooking become meditation. 11. Think about what is necessary. 12. Live simply. 11.

幸福的真諦應該是「平安就是福」，能不能夠平安雖然和外在環境有關係，但是決定性的關鍵，還是在於主觀的自我心態—如果自己的心態能平安、知足，就是幸福；如果不知足，要獲得幸福就很難。

"Don't do what others say, just listen them, but do what you feel good"

「人要做自己喜歡的事，很難；但是，可以盡量不做自己不喜歡的事。」

電影《征服情海》裡，飾演美式足球小牌運動員的小庫巴古丁，有一回在兩人激烈且帶情緒而近乎失控的交談後，對飾演失意運動員經紀人的湯姆克魯斯說，「對你來說這是爭吵，但是對我說，我認為我們終於有了對話。」

「讓時間充分的自我運用。」

“Aunque llueva, aunque el camino sea largo, aunque la montaña sea alta, llegaremos al FINAL” “It doesn’t matter if it rains, if the road is long, if the mountain is too high, we will get to THE END”.

第二大心法，是愛人，很需要理性。在《破惘》中有這一句：「要維持兩人的愛情關係，第一重要的是有理性。通常人們以為愛情既然是感性的，所以對愛情就不應該講理性。其實愛情是感性的是一回事，如何維繫愛情的關係又是另一回事。所謂講理性，不是叫人在談情說愛時大講邏輯，而是叫人多為對方設想，凡事寬容一點。」

「俗語說「圓人會扁，扁人會圓」，有錢有勢終也有「雞嘴變鴨嘴」的一天，「天地保忠厚ˋ天公疼憨人」，「憨人」畢竟是有「憨福」的。」

writing on the shades

"To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury; and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable; and wealthy, not rich; to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly; to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart; to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasion, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious grow up through the common. This is to be my symphony." William Ellery Channing

她從不同的角度去書寫這兩個女人，然後安靜地用文字告訴了讀者：「每個人都有她良善的一面。」就像她多年前說過的：「不要計較別人怎樣對待你，只問自己怎樣對待別人。 」

"Some times you've got to have a little dumbness to stay happy with your job"

「半客半友談笑竟忘年，半醉半飽離座展笑顏。[…] 半少卻饒滋味，半多反壓糾纏。[…] 半之樂，樂無邊。」

"It's been so long since I picked up a pen and wrote more than everyday necessities: a grocery list or a phone number. But something about this place, authors alive and breathing within its walls, reminds me that I am writing because I must, because it is how I am supposed to experience the world. And if my words never glimmer longer than a moment, it doesn't matter. Because in that moment I am living and my words are lighting my jouney."

「那是張愛玲說的。像一把冷刃，輕輕劃破許多堆砌的說辭。」

"shoot for the moon -- even if you miss, you'll land among the stars."

「牽絆不好，牽掛很好；擔心不好，關心很好。」

"Normal day, let me be aware of the treasure you are."-- - Mary Augustine

"They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for. "

「我終於明白生命的意義在於奉獻，而不在享受。人活著正是為了給我們生活在其中的社會添一點光彩，這我們辦得到，因為我們每個人都有更多的愛、更多的同情、更多的精力、更多的時間，比用來維持我們個人的生存所需要的多得多，為別人花費了它們，我們的生命才會開花結果，否則，我們將憔悴地死去。」

「能享受自己的地方便何處都能享受」