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「她說她倆的愛情變成了習慣，只有感情。習慣的開始，都是默契吧？是大家用時閒和精神去建立，有愛情，也可以有習慣的。還是你有了新刺激，於是馬上覺得舊有的都不能令你感到有趣了？」

"Be happy in whatever you do. I love how that sounds."

不要比較，也不要計較，關係裏一但摻雜算術，便像購物，像車像樓像衣服，隨時可換「更好的」

「原來當你聽到一個人遽然去逝的消息時，你的反應才是你對那個人的真正感覺。你不能控制的，你沉默的心那時會跳出來說話。」

「有時候選擇分手，真的未必是因為第三者，只是因為累了，疲倦於要對一個人繼續付出、繼續貼心、繼續包容，你會累到連提起嘴角安撫對方不安的情緒都感到厭煩」 「其實，心碎是有聲音的，那滿載的情感在失望的瞬間，是會真的通通摔落在地上的，而那是真的真的有聲音的，所以這些音樂人才能用這些音符勾勒出心碎的故事唱給失戀的人聽」

About 10 years ago, I remember going to work with a raging cold. It was the latest in a series of weird little illnesses I'd picked up over the two previous years. 'I have no idea what's wrong with me,' I remember lamenting to my boss, Mike. 'I'm generally healthy as a horse.' 'Oh please, Karen,' said Mike. 'You haven't noticed how you always get ill when you're stressed? I can almost predict the day you're going to come down with something, just by looking at your workload.' I remember being incredibly shocked by this, and vehemently denying it ... until I realized he was right. And you'd think by now I'd learn to stock up on vitamins during stressful times, but that would require logic and planning on my part, wouldn't it ... ... anyway, as I type this, I'm lying in bed, full of one of Marcus' fabulous seafood stews, and about to take a good swig of Nyquil. And yes, while my current state is indicative of what I've been facing at work, the truth is that today I took the first of many steps toward alleviating my stress. And it was a big first step, too. So even though I feel like hammered dog shit, the good thing is that I feel like very happy, very content hammered dog shit. You know, in a manner of speaking.

because life [and people] are already too complicated.

「常常我說著心情，你竟也平靜的接到球，懂得爵士的人說它是即興抓到的球而呼應出的默契，常常我想說什麼，甚或不想說什麼，你都能從輕微的舉動中，不經意的脫出口。」

「愛上了你才漸漸明白，要留住一個人，靠的從來不是眼淚。」

"但那些個只有妳們才懂得的笑話和秘密，妳知道，別人的胸膛即使會更暖，但再也不到他專屬的那種溫柔了。"

「我們可以生活簡單點、高興些。別為快樂寫下悼語，因為我們一起的人生才剛開始…」

「真的有旺夫這回事嗎？ 現在覺得 是有的. 當你愛一個人, 冰雪聰明的你 是會自自然然 在適當的位置 協助他/她, 方便他/她.」

「愛得不夠的時候，什麼樣的小事，都變得難以忍受，當愛不夠，一切小事都要變大事了」

「再過去些日子，大概彼此俱曉得，某些曖昧，再耐人尋味，也不比那一種親密來得溫暖。反正互相扶持，就比足夠更足夠。出發往何處甚麼事有利對方都互通消息，這種關係，其實很窩心很好。」

「生氣時，會覺得是某個人所引起的，他／她成為你指責的目標。如果再好好想想，會發覺，自己內在怒氣的種子，才是你怒火攻心的主要原因」

「如果沒有人可以真正瞭解我的情緒，我能不能當自己最好的朋友？」

我發現，人們要用「味道」形容的記憶，僅管輸入大腦前不是用嗅覺，都必定比其他的知覺形容來的更深層。有人說或許是因為味道需要的距離夠親密，於是大腦親疏搜尋機制容易讓他被輸出。但我說呀，其實將味道植入記憶裏的，不是單純的味道或距離，而是更近的距離裏，我們潛意識中承認的或是不願承認的，親愛的、憎恨的「那個關係」。

「世上人的敏感原有兩種，一種是卑微的，自傷的；一種是知心的，靈性的。」

Remembrance is a form of meeting; Forgetfulness is a form of freedom. 記憶，是一種使人相遇的形式。遺忘，卻是一種重獲自由的方式。 紀伯倫（Kahil Gibran）

1. Do one thing at a time. 2. Do it slowly and deliberately. 3. Do it completely. 4. Do less. 5. Put space between things. 6. Develop rituals. 7. Designate time for certain things. 8. Devote time to sitting. 9. Smile and serve others. 10. Make cleaning and cooking become meditation. 11. Think about what is necessary. 12. Live simply. 11.

"When I am thinking and beginning to feel dizzy, I wonder if there is a language that's complex enough to say everything we want to say. I could just say that I'm missing you but it's not enough."

"What is a joutney? A journey is not a trip. It's not a vacation. It's a process. A Discovery. It's a process of self-discovery. A journey brings us face to face with ourselves. A journey shows us not only the world, but how we fit in it. Does the person create the journey or does the journey create the person? The journey is life itself. Where will life take you?"

"The human body is powered by love, which becomes electric signals sent out through our hearts and into the universe, but most people are too busy to listen."